SAT Anxiety: Smart Ways to Stay Calm Before Test Day

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Hands writing in a notebook during SAT preparation

SAT anxiety is real, and if you are feeling the pressure as the SAT or ACT gets closer, you’re not alone. A lot of teens walk into test season already consumed by it.

What will it be like? How will I do? What if I don’t hit the score I need?

On top of your own nerves, there is often outside pressure too, from parents, coaches, or the quiet competition of knowing what a sibling scored or what a certain school requires. At Davis-Smith Mental Health in New Lenox, IL, we help teens with test stress and anxiety, and here is what can help.

Neon sign that says breathe on a wall of green leaves, a reminder to breathe through SAT anxiety

Why SAT Anxiety Makes Tests Harder

Here’s the thing about test anxiety that most people don’t talk about. Worry actually gets in the way.

When your brain is stuck in an anxious spiral, it doesn’t have the same ability to think clearly, recall information, or work through problems the way it can when you feel calm. That makes managing your anxiety part of performing well, right alongside studying.

A few butterflies are normal and can even help you focus. When nerves build past that point, SAT anxiety can show up like this:

  • A racing heart, sweaty palms, or shaky hands
  • A nervous stomach or no appetite on test morning
  • Trouble falling asleep the week of the test
  • Going blank on things you know well
  • Thoughts like “Everyone else is better at this” or “I’m going to ruin my chances”

Start by Getting Out of Your Head

One of the simplest things you can do is write down what you’re worried about. You are not trying to solve anything yet, just getting it out of your head and onto paper.

Once it’s there, look at each worry and ask yourself honestly: is this a real concern, or is my brain spinning a story? Anxiety has a way of making things feel more certain and more catastrophic than they actually are, and naming that can take away some of its power.

Here is what that can look like on paper:

The worryReal concern or a story?What you can do
“I’m going to fail.”A story. You have been preparing, and the test has not even happened yet.Focus on the next practice section, not the final score.
“I don’t know where the test center is.”A real concern, and an easy one to fix.Look it up now and plan your route.
“This one score decides my whole future.”A story. You can retake it, and colleges look at much more than a test score.Remind yourself this is one piece of a bigger picture.
“I always run out of time on math.”A real concern you can work on.Do a few timed practice sections to get used to the pace.

Sleep and Food Matter More Than One More Study Session

The night before your exam, your brain needs rest more than it needs more information. Avoid the all-nighter.

Instead, do something that actually helps you wind down. Light a candle, journal, pray, listen to something calming, or do whatever helps you settle.

A tired brain struggles to think clearly, recall what it knows, and make good decisions under pressure. The Sleep Foundation has a helpful guide on teens and sleep if you want ideas for resting better in the weeks before the test.

In the morning, eat something. Even if nerves make you feel like you can’t, try.

My grandma always said to have a glass of juice for blood sugar and some peanut butter toast for protein and carbs. Honestly, it’s not bad advice.

If you don’t usually drink coffee or energy drinks, test day is not the day to start. Extra caffeine can make a racing heart race even faster.

Your First Score Need Not Be Your Last

This is worth saying clearly. The SAT and ACT can be taken more than once, and that is simply how this works.

I took the ACT four times before I felt good about my score. Each time I learned something about where I needed more practice, how to pace myself, and what the experience actually felt like.

That wasn’t failure. It was strategy, and it can be yours too. Knowing you have more than one chance can turn test day from a make-or-break morning into one step in a process.

If taking it multiple times isn’t an option for you, practice tests are the next best thing. The College Board has official practice and prep resources, and you can also find prep books at the library.

Getting familiar with the structure, the timing, and the way questions are worded can make test day feel a lot less like unknown territory. To get the most out of practice:

  • Take at least one full practice test in one sitting, timed, the way it will feel on test day.
  • Go back over every question you missed and figure out why. Was it a careless slip, a timing problem, or something you have not learned yet?
  • Notice when your nerves spike during practice, so you can plan what to do if it happens for real.
  • Spread your studying out over several weeks instead of cramming the last few days.

Practical Things That Actually Help on Test Day

SAT anxiety often spikes because things feel out of control. These small steps can bring some of that control back.

Before test day

  • Know the test location and your room number ahead of time.
  • Check what you are allowed to bring, then lay out your clothes and materials the night before.
  • Set more than one alarm.
  • Plan to arrive early so you’re not rushing.

During the test

  • Read every question carefully before answering.
  • Don’t watch what other people are doing around you. Someone who seems to be working faster is not necessarily doing better.
  • Keep an eye on the clock, but don’t let it become another source of panic.
  • If you don’t know an answer, move on and come back.
  • Talk to yourself the way you’d talk to a friend. Kindly.

A quick breathing reset

Breathe. If your heart starts racing in the middle of a section, put your pencil down, set both feet flat on the floor, and take a few slow breaths, making each exhale a little longer than the inhale.

Then picture yourself at home, relaxed, knowing the test is already behind you. Practice this a few times at home first so it feels natural when you need it.

For Parents: How to Help Without Adding Pressure

Parents want to help, and sometimes that help lands as more pressure on a teen who is already dealing with SAT anxiety. A calm, steady presence usually does more than reminders and pep talks.

  • Ask how they are feeling about the test, then listen more than you talk.
  • Avoid comparing their scores to a sibling’s, a cousin’s, or your own.
  • Handle logistics like the ride and breakfast so they can focus on the test.
  • Plan something fun for afterward, no matter how they think it went.

If college planning is adding to the stress, our getting ready for college checklist breaks the process into smaller steps.

When SAT Anxiety Is More Than Test Nerves

Some nerves before a big test are expected. For some teens, though, test anxiety is part of a bigger pattern of worry that shows up in school, sleep, and everyday life.

What you noticeNormal test nervesTime to get support
TimingShows up the week of the test and fades afterLasts for weeks or shows up before every test and quiz
During the testButterflies at first, then you settle inGoing blank, panicking, or needing to leave the room
SleepA restless night before the testTrouble sleeping most nights
SchoolStill going to class and turning in workAvoiding school, skipping tests, or dropping classes

If this sounds familiar, the National Institute of Mental Health has helpful information on anxiety and how it is treated. The good news is that test anxiety is something you can learn to manage, and you do not have to do it alone.

How Therapy Can Help

Therapy gives teens with SAT anxiety a chance to understand what is going on and practice calming tools well before test day. At Davis-Smith Mental Health, we use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help teens catch anxious thoughts like “I’m going to fail” and replace them with something more balanced.

Our team also uses EMDR, which can help with anxiety. Sessions with teens are relaxed and conversational, and the goal is to build tools you can use on your own, including in the testing room.

Learn more about our test anxiety therapy and teen anxiety counseling, or read our tips for staying calm during finals.

You’ve Put in the Work

SAT anxiety is real, but it doesn’t have to run the day. You have more in you than your nerves are telling you right now.

Hiker raising both arms beside a lake, celebrating after pushing through SAT anxiety

Walk Into Test Day Feeling Calm

If test nerves are starting to take over, you do not have to manage them on your own. We see teens in person at our New Lenox office and through telehealth anywhere in Illinois.

We work with families from Joliet, Frankfort, Mokena, Tinley Park, and across Will County. Call (815) 409-5940 or request a session online to get started.

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, almost everyone feels some nerves before a big test, and a little anxiety can even sharpen your focus. It is worth paying attention when SAT anxiety leads to going blank, panic, or weeks of poor sleep. It may also be something more if the same worry shows up before every quiz and test, not just the big ones. In that case, talking with a therapist can help you learn to manage it.

Skip the all-nighter and do something relaxing instead, like journaling, listening to music, or watching a favorite show. Lay out your clothes and materials, check what you need to bring, and set more than one alarm. Try to go to bed at a reasonable time so your brain is rested. In the morning, eat something, even if it is small.

First, know that going blank is a common stress response, not a sign that you do not know the material. Put your pencil down, plant your feet, and take a few slow breaths with long exhales. Then skip to a question you feel more sure about and come back later. Practicing under timed conditions ahead of time also makes going blank less likely on test day.

Not at all. Plenty of students take the SAT or ACT more than once, and each attempt teaches you something about pacing and where to focus your practice. Knowing you have another chance can also take a lot of pressure off the first try. Each college has its own policy on how it looks at multiple scores, so check with the schools on your list.

That is common, and it helps to frame counseling as a place to get tools, not a sign that something is wrong. Many teens are more open to it than parents expect, especially when they hear it is their own space. Asking them to try one session usually feels more doable than committing to more. If you would like ideas for how to raise it, we are glad to help.

A welcome email comes first, with intake forms to fill out at least 48 hours ahead. When you get to our New Lenox office, check in on the iPad so your therapist knows you have arrived, and have a drink or snack if you want one. Your therapist will come say hello in the waiting room and lead the way to a private office. The first session is a conversation about what brings you in and your goals, not a test, which is probably a relief. You can read more about what to expect at your first session.

Yes. Online sessions through our telehealth work from anywhere in the state, as long as your teen is physically located in Illinois at the time of each session. That can make it easier to fit therapy around a packed school and test prep schedule. Families can switch between online and in-person sessions as life requires, and when possible, we suggest the first visit be in person.

It depends on the person, and there is no set number of sessions. Most teens start with weekly sessions, at least three in a row, to build a connection with their therapist. Some feel ready to handle test nerves on their own within a few months, while others like ongoing support through a busy school year. When things are going well, you and the therapist can decide together whether to meet every other week.

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Alexandra Morgan, LCPC

Alexandra Morgan, LCPC

Anxiety & Self-Esteem Therapist

  • Teens & young adults
  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Self-esteem
Michelle Verheyen, LCPC

Michelle Verheyen, LCPC

EMDR Therapist

  • Teens & adults
  • EMDR
  • Anxiety
  • Trauma
Sidra Shoaib, LPC

Sidra Shoaib, LPC

Anxiety & Emotional Regulation Counselor

  • Ages 5 to 17
  • Anxiety
  • School stress
  • Big feelings
Danielle Moon, LSW

Danielle Moon, LSW

Trauma Therapist

  • Ages 10+ and adults
  • Trauma
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
Jessica N. Davis, LCPC

Jessica N. Davis, LCPC

Founder & CEO

  • Teens
  • Anxiety
  • CBT
  • Motivational Interviewing

In-network with

  • Aetna PPO
  • Cigna / Evernorth
  • BCBS PPO
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  • Ongoing sessions $150

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We work with most major insurance plans and offer self-pay options. We believe quality mental health care should be accessible. Davis-Smith Mental Health is in-network with the following insurance providers.

We also offer self-pay options and can provide a Superbill for out-of-network benefits.

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You don’t have to figure this out alone

If something told you to keep reading this far, trust that feeling. Whether it’s for yourself, your teen, or your young adult, the hardest part is deciding to start. We are here when you are ready.

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